I was thinking today, how when I meet someone and if it gets serious enough, it is bound to come up that I am in therapy. I have been in therapy for a long time. Some would think that is a red flag - I probably would in the reverse situation. Should it?
The contextual piece is that I am not pathological. Slightly neurotic, leaning toward self-indulgent, and continuously fluctuating. Some days a little crazy, on others therapy is like going to a mind spa.
I will add it to the list of things that someone can just take or leave (please let someone really great want to take it).