Monday, November 27, 2006

tired of temporary

Checking in on one of my regular reads, I came upon an unexpected goodbye post. My initial instinct was to join in with the audience, clamouring to come up with unique ways of saying, 'no, please stay', 'say it ain't so', but then I saw that there was nothing original left for me. Still, I wondered if I should just say something, anything, to weight the numbers for a return, but instead I closed the window.

Why just drop it like that? Why can't anything feel permanent? Why does it matter so much to me? When this blogger threw 'jump the shark' out there, I drew back like I'd touched something unexpectedly hot.

I too could say goodbye on this blog today. I thought about it for a moment, but not in any sort of real way. More like the way I tease myself sometimes while waiting for the subway with the idea that I could, at any given moment, decide to jump in front of the train. I mean, people do. It is physically possible. The only thing separating me from that is choice.

If I decided to end it - the blog I mean, maybe a couple people would say, 'ah c'mon...stick around'. At least one would say, 'it is what it is', or some variation of that. I guess I'm angry at how easily I could dissapear. You'd let me go that easy. Don't get me wrong - if I thought I couldn't get away, I wouldn't be able to breath. The existence of choice is what makes things bearable.

In life and in blogging, people make their exits for different reasons. Some people go for the drama. Others worry their time is running out and they want to beat it to the punch. I'm sure there are a million more reasons. I want guarantees. I want you to say, don't worry Rachel, I'm not going anywhere. You can count on me. At the very least I want to know you'll be around for a while - long enough for me to soften my shoulders, take my coat off, and relax.

5 comments:

The Fed Ex of Funk said...

Don't worry Rachel, I'm not going anywhere. You can count on me.

And really, why would you leave? This is the only place you really feel at home, or at least your mechanism for coping with things outside of your control. I guess that could change, but I imagine that you would change right along with it.

Lx said...

i'm sticking around...so you can get your laughs over at my joint.
you know...because...it is what it is.
ah feck...how original was that?

Rachel said...

Ok. Coat off. Much better.

FEF, I'm glad you'll keep it up. You always keep me entertained with your fresh perspective and your strange roommates. I imagine you have a lot of energy. I wonder how oatmeal boy is doing?

And El? I'm glad you're sticking around. My days just wouldn't be the same without you. It is what it is.

Anonymous said...

Perhaps this is off, but I write because I enjoy the words. If they are read and reacted to so be it. As long as they bring that to me I'll write.

Rachel said...

Well Nebraska, I hope the words keep bringing that to you then.